What should i do? (open to all es)?

well heres the deal... i am 27 years old living alone in new york city, my name is Stanley, currently i have never had ... my only real chance was back in college when i was dating my girlfriend.. well one thing lead to another and she took off my pants... when she did she started to LOL.. i was so mortified i ran out of the room.. it turns out i am extremely too small.. currently i am 7 cm long when i am fully erect.. is there any way i can make it bigger? ive already tried a pump..